*Rolls up sleeves* allllll riiiiiight. XD
So FMA is a shonen, yeah, and I think it’s pretty iconic in shonen anime/manga. That being said, it’s a beautiful story and a fun one too–it balances some very heavy themes with some humor, and it doesn’t feel uneven or like it’s trying too hard. It’s also genuinely touching in terms of its themes of redemption and hope and reconciliation, and despite being shonen its answers aren’t easy-peasy or cheap. Compassion is also a major theme that’s never cheapened or looked down upon.
The characters are really well done, and in particular I like how they depict the female characters like Winry, Mei Chang, Riza Hawkeye, and Olivier Armstrong. They’re strong and multi-faceted, and easy to like and root for while not being perfect angels.
The antagonists. Oh, the antagonists. They are so. well. done. They’re highly complex and the lines between good and evil are not so simply drawn, especially seen in the character(s) of Ling/Greed, and also Envy. They’re sympathetic, and yet at the same time we’re dealing with themes of, like, genocide, and the story doesn’t cheapen that while still letting you feel for the villains.
As for the traumatizing aspect… yeah. So like that’s mostly in the first few episodes; I actually almost quit the series after either episode 5 or 6 wherein a child is subjected to a cruel, sickening experiment and dies. It’s not graphic, but it does get the point across, and the themes do resonate throughout the entire series, so I wouldn’t call it gratuitous in any means, but as I’ve said the deaths of children is something I don’t handle well. But honestly I think the first few episodes are the worst when it comes to that, and then it gets way better and isn’t as dark or terrible as the first few episodes almost convinced me it would be.
It’s a story about hope, at the end, I feel, and kindness and love and family triumphing over despair and cruelty and utilitarianism.