Honestly, Anon?
How. DARE. You. You are rude, and sending this was a really not a kind thing to do. What part of you thought it was a good idea to be like “I hope Ishida Sensei isn’t ever criticized, guess I better send a passive aggressive (aka a way to bully while still looking good) post to someone else telling them they’re awful for something they DIDN’T EVEN DO?”
I have expressed absolutely nothing but GRATITUDE towards Ishida for his amazing work.
I never will express anything but gratitude towards him. TG saved my life. I think the last arc was terribly written, but I separate the work from the person. I think Ishida one of the most talented writers I have ever had the privilege of reading, and I have nothing but complete love for the man. But I don’t have to blindly accept everything he puts out just because. I doubt he wants that since a major theme of TG was empathy and allowing for different opinions.
I am so SICK of this fandom equating things that should not be equated. I certainly have not nor would ever attack Ishida for my l=not liking the ending, call him a bad writer (good writers can produce less than quality work sometimes; it’s called being a human being). I love his work and want to see more of it, and will gladly purchase all the TG volumes.
But since I’ve wanted to say this for months now let’s fucking go.

I’ve been really frustrated with the way the TG fandom has been acting lately, in particular equating all critical analysis/meta with hate and saying anyone who did not like the TG ending or anyone who says it feels like Ishida rushed it is hating on him. That simply is not true, and people who say that betray an immature understanding of the words used and also a lack of understanding of literature and how the field of literature functions. Which I studied. I have a degree in it.
Critique and critical analysis are parts of fandom though they don’t have to be your part of fandom. You don’t like most metas? Don’t read! That’s totally fine! It’s fine to engage in fandom via memes or meta, shipping or fanart, fanfic or stanning or roleplay or whatever, and to not engage with the types of engagement you don’t like. It’s. All. Good. Take care of your mental health first. It’s also totally fine to unfollow if it’s really not good for you right now. Nothing wrong with that.
That being said, it hurts to read vague posts lumping you in with antis and misogynists and haters just because you interpret things differently and don’t think a story is perfect. Critical analysis is not hate: it’s a legitimate way to analyze what a series means to you personally, and for every meta writer I know it’s a way for them to express their love for the series.
For some of us, character flaws mean a lot, so maybe we write about that and how the characters might overcome it, because that’s genuinely what we find the most meaningful part of a story to us. Like, do people really think meta writers devote hours and hours and hours of our time to rereading the text, pouring over panels to identify patterns, writing 10K word essays on how a character can overcome their flaws because we hate the story and want to shit on the character? Even when I wrote about how I think TG has bungled its themes, I wrote it because I love those themes (which are GOOD) and I love this story.
So part of critical analysis involves, well, critique. It’s why movie critics are a thing, TV show critics, book critics. Ishida is an amazing writer whom I respect immensely, but he is human and not a god, and it is not disrespectful to say that the story has flaws, nor to discuss those perceived flaws and how they affect one’s view of the text. What isn’t okay is ad hominem attacks on a writer just as it is not okay to ad hominem attack a blogger. The notion that one should be quiet and not critique work because it’s being written by someone else is baffling because that’s legitimately what literary/journalistic criticism is: critique of another person’s story. You don’t critique your own work; that’s called revising. It’s disrespectful to imply an author doesn’t expect critique; all writers expect it. Name calling on the other hand is wholly wrong, and anyone trashing Ishida or insulting him should stop immediately. But I’ve seen so many in the fandom conflating these two things (attacks and critique) and it’s really unfair and creates a strawman argument and rather than addressing the issue of hate simply addresses nothing at all.
A lot of the vaguing and occasionally actual bullying I’ve seen is coming from people who claim to have experienced the fandom being made an uncomfortable place for them before with hate and antis (this, for the record, is not singling out a particular subset of the fandom as I’ve seen it on multiple sides). And it probably has been, and antis for any ship or character are honestly horrible. But the way the same people treat meta writers makes me feel like it’s not about creating a more comfortable fandom, but rather creating a fandom where everyone agrees with them. Like, after the release of 177, people who have previously complained about dealing with antis posted literal hate directed at real people (people w/ a perspective I happen to share) over a fictional story/character. Just focus on what you like to do, be it meta and critique or fanfic or writing about how a character has impacted you and how much you love him, and let other people do what they want to do. That’s all fine. But actual attacks were a thing.
What else am I supposed to conclude besides that the TG fandom doesn’t actually have a problem with bullying or with hate, but only has a problem when it’s directed at your particular likes?
Like legit one time I wrote a 1000 essay on how meaningful and beautiful I find Kaneki’s character with like, one mention of “selfish” in the context of “I can relate” and do you have any idea how much pushback I got from that, how people vagued for months about how I was ableist for one word used in a context of “I love him?” I’m a real person, not a fictional character. I cried. What do people want anyways? A 500 word disclaimer before every post that me saying x is selfish sometimes doesn’t mean I’m reducing a character to just being selfish? I don’t have time for that. No one does. I don’t know what else I can do.
If you relate to a character to the point where you cannot handle someone not loving every attribute of said fictional character and you start lashing out at realpeople over it because you feel personally attacked, you might need to take a step back. There’s also a difference between “I think this character is acting selfishly and needs to overcome it” or “I personally find this character unlikeable,” and “I want this character to die painfully.” The latter one is definitely hate and by all means complain about it being tagged or whatnot, but the former two are not–they are merely different opinions.
I’ve seen so many people saying for months now that popular meta writers discourage disagreement when there are no receipts to back that claim up. It is true that occasionally every single one of us gets passionate about something and requests that a certain topic (usually with real world triggers, like the death of kids, abuse in the case of the ongoing BNHA arc, etc.) not be debated on our blog, but like, every meta writer I know, whether I agree with them or not, knows that meta writing is literally founded in disagreement. Like for real. That’s how the field of literature and literary criticism (which is what meta is) works. Someone disagrees, or a thought is provoked by reading someone else’s essay (professional meta) and then they write their own. Ishida definitely knows literature, so I am sure he gets this. Every. Writer. Gets. This.
So if you don’t like the meta content out there, create your own. That’s legit why I started writing TG meta: no one was making the points I thought of when it came to Mutsuki so I decided to post them. If you disagree with certain metas, instead of vaguing about the writers or speculating about how they treat their families over an opinion on a fictional character (yes, popular bloggers have done that), respond with a meta of your own outlining the textual evidence why your opinion is strong. I’d love to read it. Metas have really helped me enjoy the story more and find new perspectives from which to appreciate TG–even if I don’t agree! Literally one of my favorite metas theorized Mutsuki would die. Clearly I strongly disagreed with that but like, it was still a meta I really loved.
People also can’t post about how people who use one word once are ruining the fandom for them when they post similar things about characters whom they don’t like, or story choices they don’t like. People are allowed to do that to post salt about characters and story choices they dislike, by the way, but they can’t pretend they hate any version of salt and only want positivity when they clearly do not: they just hate salt that stems from a different opinion. Maybe some of us just wanted to enjoy the anime while knowing it wasn’t going to be great. All the salt about it wasn’t what I wanted to see as I just wanted to enjoy it, but again, I’m an adult who can read their opinion and not have it affect my own.
Responding to ideas is again, fine to do. What isn’t fine is making it personal with vague, yet still ad hominem, attacks. For months I’ve put up with people complaining on both twitter and tumblr about how meta writers are ruining their fandom experience and in those posts they’ve been making it personal, attacking my or my friends’ ability to read (I like… have a degree in literature), attacking my empathy, attacking my family relationships which they know nothing about, and saying I’m selfishly hurting people by saying X Character can be selfish. Do people have any idea how it felt to see people reblogging posts that actually called people who didn’t like certain recent chapters names? To see some of those posts get occasionally hundreds of reblogs?
There’s not a better way to say to me, “you aren’t welcome.” It makes it seem like the people accusing meta writers of just being bitter are simply focused on erasing any kind of disagreement even when it is polite. If the fandom wanted an echo chamber, this is how you create one.























































